Dating Personals

If you find men not paying much attention to you in the next coming weeks, it might not be you, it might be money worries. With what is going on in the economy men tend to go inward when they are concerned about their finances or their jobs. They aren’t thinking about dating other than maybe to get laid, which relieves them of the worry for a short time. So even though you might be worried as well, men take it as a jolt against their manhood. It’s not personal because they really can’t see you when their mind is filled with concerns about their future and their financial world.

Kazan Mates

Of course, when you are looking for a man, you want to be as attractive as you can. But there are subtle things you might be doing that will not attract man, but instead, actually repel them. A common mistake women unconsciously make when they go on a date is to come across as needy. Women do it more then men, but men do it as well. It’s extremely unattractive energy. The reason this is so repellent is because every cell of your bodies, deep within our DNA, is set to avoid danger. When someone is needy, it feels like danger to our unconscious mind so we react at an instinctual level.

Kazan Men Dating

There are so many subtle mistakes we make when we date that it’s amazing that anyone hooks up at all. In one of the books in my From Flirting To Forever dating program is Stop Blowing It With Men, where I describe the most common dating mistakes women make. Sadly, most of them go unnoticed by the woman making them, and then they wonder why men don’t call back, or worse, don’t even ask them out. Ignorance is definitely not bliss. When you know what you’re doing, dating doesn’t have to be scary and stressful, it can actually be fun.

Kazan Singles

Another reason you might not be getting as many dates is because it’s expensive to go out. Dinner, movie, gas. It all adds up. And a man wants to be able to impress the woman he’s seeing. If money is short, he’s going to pull back on dating. Because men take their economic health so personally (you’ve heard of men jumping out of buildings in the Big Crash), you can improve your chances of finding love in these hard times if you make the effort to understand what REALLY makes men tick. You can learn my secrets about men and literally become an expert on men when you order your copy of Men Made Easy. In this crazy economy, everything you can do will help.

Single Women

A needy person requires work on our part and it feels like it won’t be an even exchange, that everything will need to go into keeping this person happy, or financially secure, or whatever it is they are searching for. They feel like they will be a burden… which is true. Have you ever been around a needy person, like someone you meet at a party and you instantly know they’re trying too hard? Doesn’t it feel like they’re trying to suck the energy right out of you? Yep, that’s what neediness feels like. Somehow, we can sense that no matter what we might do, this needy person will always stay needy. “No thanks” to that…